Pleasure,
honestly
reviewed.
Vexiaplay is an independent editorial magazine for women. We test, research and write about intimate wellness with the seriousness it deserves and none of the noise.
"We started Vexiaplay because the conversation around wellness deserved better writing, fewer euphemisms, and a great deal more rigour."
This week's reading
LELO Sona 2 Cruise Review: We Tested the £119 Vibrator Everyone's Obsessed With
Is the LELO Sona 2 Cruise worth £119? We tested it for 2 months. Here's the honest verdict on sonic wave technology.
Best First Vibrator: A No-Nonsense Guide for Beginners (2025)
Buying your first vibrator? We tested the best options for beginners in 2025—from £12 budget picks to £75 luxury starters.
Tested, tried, recommended
Tips & techniques
How to talk about what you actually want
A short, practical guide to changing the conversation — without scripts, awkwardness, or making it feel like a performance review.
A grown-up guide to solo play
Why making space for a regular solo practice is one of the most under-discussed health habits in women's lives.
For women who refuse to disappear
Sex After 50: What Nobody Tells You (And What You Wish They Had)
Hormones shift, bodies change, desire evolves. A frank conversation with women in their 50s, 60s, and 70s about what actually improves with age.
Sex After 50: What Nobody Tells You (And What You Wish They Had)
Hormones shift, bodies change, desire evolves. A frank conversation with women in their 50s, 60s, and 70s about what actually improves with age.
Morning Light
"She woke before the alarm, the room still half-dark, his hand resting low on her hip as if it had always belonged there."
The body, explained
Best Lubricants for Pleasure: The One Thing That Actually Increases Your Chances of Orgasm
Research shows 76% of women report more consistent orgasms when using lube. Here are the best lubricants for solo and partnered pleasure.
Best Lubricants for Pleasure: The One Thing That Actually Increases Your Chances of Orgasm
Research shows 76% of women report more consistent orgasms when using lube. Here are the best lubricants for solo and partnered pleasure.
Best Lubricants for Pleasure: The One Thing That Actually Increases Your Chances of Orgasm
Research shows 76% of women report more consistent orgasms when using lube. Here are the best lubricants for solo and partnered pleasure.